milk, more to thin further if needed • sugar, less or more to taste • green cardamom powder • tiny pinch saffron, optional • butter, or ghee, divided • rice flour or grounded rice • vanilla custard powder dissolve in water 💦 • dried dates, soaked overnight, deseeded, sliced, optional • mixed nuts, crushed, (almond, pistachio, cashew) • cup crushed vermicelli • raisins, soaked for 10 minutes, optional • cream, optional but recommeded