In a bowl take cooked rice and smash it little using spoon or put it in a grinder and just churn little.

Ina pan take 1 spoon ghee. Add all dryfruits, rice, sugar, malai, and milk. Let it cook. Dry dates have to be soaked in water for atleast 15 mins and then chopped.

When it starts boiling it will start to thicken. As it's ready add elaichi powder. Serve hot or chilled as per ur choice.