large carrots, finely grated, (or blitz in food processor until finely shredded),, can of coconut milk,, sultanas,, sugar, or more to taste,, cardamom pods, seeds removed husks discarded, seeds crushed into powder,, unsalted butter or ghee, or more to taste,, Crushed toasted nuts of your choice, eg: walnuts, pistachios, almond extract,, drops of coconut flavouring