Cook bacon.

Butter one side of the bread.(both slices)

Apple butter on the inside of one or both slices

Assemble your sandwich inside of a cold pan with a slice of bread(butter down), put cheese, Set pre-cooked chopped bacon on the the cheese(or inbetween), set second slice of bread on top(butter side up)

Turn stove on to low/medium

Cook until golden brown and the cheese is gooey.