Of Cabbage Sodhi and Fried Fish

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Pinkblanket's Kitchen @pinkblanketskitchen
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“I don’t know how to cook. One day if i live on my own, i ll call you everyday to help me preparing my meal. I ll be probably on your COOKPAD everyday if i want to eat our food”, said my ambitious 13 year-old daughter while eating her dinner (at 5pm) 🤦🏻‍♀️ “or you’ll eat out every day” my replied left her speechless for a bit. “No i won’t. Eating out in London is very expensive,” “What??!!!” I screamed in silent, a scream that only me and me alone could hear. She continued enjoying her dinner. My hands were as busy as my mind, pounding dried anchovies and onions for my ‘Malaysian Sambal’, “Notre Dame University is just 30 minutes drive from home, and so are other good universities in CBD, flight to London takes more than 17hours excluding stopover destinations, waiting duration, planning already? Leaving soon?” My mind in its erratic state spiraling and transitioning fast into unwanted mental storm; fearing the future. “I’ll be here mama. I wont leave u” my youngest one said excitedly. I smiled at her, “really? Thats great! I can even drive you to school....” “mama, you cant. I ll be in Sydney.” Sigh. Perth to Sydney, that's a long flight.

So that’s that. We left it at that. That evening, Conversation over home-cooked meals. Over Cabbage Sodhi in creamy turmeric soup and Fried Fish.

And there’s COOKPAD.
~ for my kids ~
When kids leave the nest.

#veggies
#soup
#coconutmilk
#fish
#protein
#dinner
#lunch
#cabbage
#kobis
#supsayur
#masaklemak
#panchphoran
#mixedspices

Of Cabbage Sodhi and Fried Fish

“I don’t know how to cook. One day if i live on my own, i ll call you everyday to help me preparing my meal. I ll be probably on your COOKPAD everyday if i want to eat our food”, said my ambitious 13 year-old daughter while eating her dinner (at 5pm) 🤦🏻‍♀️ “or you’ll eat out every day” my replied left her speechless for a bit. “No i won’t. Eating out in London is very expensive,” “What??!!!” I screamed in silent, a scream that only me and me alone could hear. She continued enjoying her dinner. My hands were as busy as my mind, pounding dried anchovies and onions for my ‘Malaysian Sambal’, “Notre Dame University is just 30 minutes drive from home, and so are other good universities in CBD, flight to London takes more than 17hours excluding stopover destinations, waiting duration, planning already? Leaving soon?” My mind in its erratic state spiraling and transitioning fast into unwanted mental storm; fearing the future. “I’ll be here mama. I wont leave u” my youngest one said excitedly. I smiled at her, “really? Thats great! I can even drive you to school....” “mama, you cant. I ll be in Sydney.” Sigh. Perth to Sydney, that's a long flight.

So that’s that. We left it at that. That evening, Conversation over home-cooked meals. Over Cabbage Sodhi in creamy turmeric soup and Fried Fish.

And there’s COOKPAD.
~ for my kids ~
When kids leave the nest.

#veggies
#soup
#coconutmilk
#fish
#protein
#dinner
#lunch
#cabbage
#kobis
#supsayur
#masaklemak
#panchphoran
#mixedspices

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Ingredients

  1. A. Main
  2. 3-4 Cchopped cabbage (small squares)
  3. B. Sauté
  4. 2 sprigscurry leaves
  5. 1big red chilli - thinly sliced
  6. (Or use 4 bird eye chillies - crushed)
  7. 1/2brown onion - thinly sliced
  8. 1 tspfinely minced garlic
  9. 1 tspmustard seed (or use #panchphoran)
  10. 1-2 tspturmeric powder
  11. C. Seasoning
  12. To Taste -chicken seasoning powder
  13. (Chicken bullion)
  14. 1/2 C- 1 C water
  15. 1tamarind peel
  16. d
  17. 1 Cancoconut cream
  18. E. To Pair with Cabbage Sodhi
  19. 5-10(or more) Fish slices
  20. 2 tspturmeric powder
  21. 2 tspchilli powder(optional)
  22. To taste - Salt or chicken seasoning powder/bullion

Cooking Instructions

  1. 1

    Prepare all ingredients. Sauté B until aromatic. Stir in chopped cabbage. Add C. Stir and leave to boil until cabbage turns soft.

  2. 2

    Add coconut cream. Stir well to mix. Adjust seasoning accordingly only after adding coconut cream. Cook until near boiling point. Turn off the heat. Dish up.

  3. 3

    E. Fried Fish - Rub fish slices with everything in E and deep fry until both sides are lightly browned. Dish up...

  4. 4

    ...with love.

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purple_acied
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Oh your kids are so adorable 😍 they are very blessed to have a good mother who cooks wonderful dishes for them everyday! My son once said that he won’t leave the house coz he wants to stay with us (parents) forever haha. He probably will change his mind soon 🤣😂

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