Pre-boiled and tender pork ribs or tail (unsalted) • tomatoes, chopped • garlic cloves, chopped • onion, chopped • Okras or green beans, sliced • Coconut milk (fresh) or (3Tbsp coconut powder mixed in water) • scoop of spicy shrimp paste (Thai, Filipino, Malaysian, Indonesian, Singaporean - any works! Remove liquid if watery) • Cooking oil for sauté • Pepper, to taste